
Her First Flame
A first bleed circle for girls and their women.
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There is a flame that lives inside every girl,
a knowing, ancient and wordless,
that flickers quietly until it is witnessed.
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And once, long ago,
when that flame began to stir,
the women gathered.
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They didn't shame her.
They didn't warn her.
They circled her.
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With ash on their hands and songs in their throats,
they told her the truth:
You are not too much.
You are not to be silenced.
You are not alone.
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Her First Flame is a return to that moment.
A circle for girls who have crossed the threshold of their first bleed, surrounded by the women who hold them:
mothers, grandmothers, aunties, chosen kin.
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We come not with instructions,
but with presence.
Not with fear,
but with reverence.
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We gather to honour what our mothers could not give us.
To bless what our grandmothers were forced to hide.
To show our daughters that their becoming is not a burden
but a birthright.
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We light the fire.
We speak the names.
We begin again.
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Join the waitlist to be part of the next circle when the time calls your name.
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